226 – How to Identify Vicarious Trauma
Carl Rogers’ 19 Propositions – Why We Shouldn’t Use Person-First Language to Describe Autistic People
In Episode 226 of the Counselling Tutor Podcast, your hosts Rory Lees-Oakes and Ken Kelly are back with this week’s three topics:
- In ‘Counselling Foundations’, Rory and Ken discuss the dreaded 19 Propositions of Carl Rogers.
- Then in ‘Focus on Self’, we look at how to identify vicarious trauma.
- And finally in ‘Practice Matters’, Rory speaks to Quinn Dexter on why we shouldn’t use person -first language to describe autistic people.
Carl Rogers’ 19 Propositions [starts at 02:20 mins]
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In this section, Rory and Ken discuss some observations on the 19 Propositions of Carl Rogers:
- They're essentially 19 different ways people perceive the world.
- They're quite heavy with academic language.
- Just a theory of phenomenology – how we act based on how we perceive.
- It may help to think about how the propositions can be applied to small children – they seem to be written with this in mind.
Carl Rogers’ 19 Propositions Decoded is available for download in the green button above.
How to Identify Vicarious Trauma [starts at 12:58 mins]
Within your practice, it is crucial to look after yourself and prevent a possible burnout. One thing to be cautious of in order to avoid this is vicarious trauma.
The key points of this discussion on recognising vicarious trauma are as follows:
- Dealing with a lot of heavy material takes its toll.
- You may find yourself thinking about a clients material more often than you should:
- Being unable to sleep very well.
- Being unable to watch people be cruel to each other (in films, for example).
- You may also eventually find yourself trying to avoid a client’s material in the room.
- Try to balance your practice – be mindful of how many trauma clients you have.
Why We Shouldn’t Use Person-First Language to Describe Autistic People [starts at 21:45 mins]
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In part one of an interview with Quinn Dexter of the YouTube channel ‘Autistamatic’, Rory discusses why, against what is widely taught, we shouldn’t use person-first language to describe autistic people.
The main points of this interview include:
- The separation of the individual from their condition implies that autism is something shameful.
- Terms such as high/low functioning and ‘on the spectrum’, can actually be highly insulting.
- Biased empathy – it is wrong to believe that autistic individuals have no empathy; it is simply judged by their own values and beliefs and can therefore often cause misunderstandings.
- There is a need for counselling and better understanding.
- In Episode 227, part two of this interview will discuss some essential insights therapists need to understand when counselling autistic people.